بِسْمِ اللهِ الرَّحْمٰنِ الرَّحِيْمِ
In the name of God, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
Life is full of ups and downs—a collection of moments that define who we are. Some moments lift us up, while others challenge us to our core. But here’s the thing: just because a moment feels like it’s against you doesn’t mean it’s bad for you. As the verse reminds us:
“Perhaps you dislike something which is good for you and like something which is bad for you. Allah knows and you do not know.” (Quran 2:216)
This profound truth encourages us to see life’s difficulties differently. Challenges aren’t punishments—they’re opportunities. Here’s why embracing those struggles could be the key to unlocking your full potential.
The Duality of Life’s Moments
It’s human nature to focus on the negative when things go wrong. We vent, complain, and dwell on our sadness. But have you ever paused to think that these moments might be carefully designed to help you grow? Consider this: maybe the tough times you face will help you appreciate the blessings you’ve been given. For example, you might be going through a family issue with your parents or siblings, yet still find immense joy with your spouse. Life is a mix of trials and treasures, and it’s up to us to uncover its hidden gems. Think of life as a Lego set—it can be frustrating to build, but the satisfaction is immeasurable once you’ve completed it.
The Lesson of Gratitude
I’ve caught myself stuck in the negative more times than I’d like to admit. Overthinking, cultural expectations and self-doubt would take over, leaving me feeling overwhelmed. But through reflection, I’ve learned that the key to overcoming challenges is gratitude. Take a moment to think about the blessings you enjoy every day. My sheik once asked me, “How much did you pay to use your eyesight today?” I laughed and said, “Nothing.” He replied, “Exactly. There are people in hospitals paying millions just to see, hear, or walk, while you enjoy these gifts for free.” This simple conversation completely shifted my perspective. It reminded me that even amidst problems, there are countless reasons to be grateful.
The Importance of Being Tested
One of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned is this: “If you have no problems in life, then you have a problem.”
When Allah tests us, it’s a sign that He wants to draw us closer to Him. It’s an opportunity to grow spiritually and seek His guidance. Reflect on the story of Prophet Ayyub (AS). He lost everything—his wealth, health, and family—yet remained patient and steadfast in his faith. His famous dua during his trial was:
“Indeed, adversity has touched me, and you are the Most Merciful of the merciful.”
Surah Anbiya Ayat 83
Eventually, Allah restored his blessings, proving that hardships are temporary, but the lessons and rewards they bring are eternal.
What to Do When You’re Struggling
When you’re overwhelmed by challenges—whether it’s finding a job, a spouse, or dealing with family issues—remember that these struggles are not without purpose. They are a reminder of your dependence on Allah and His infinite wisdom. Here are a few steps to help you navigate tough times:
- Practice Gratitude: Acknowledge the blessings you have, even when life feels difficult.
- Reflect on Past Trials: Think of moments you thought you’d never overcome—and yet, here you are.
- Make Dua: Seek Allah’s help and mercy, just as Prophet Ayyub (AS) did.
- Stay Positive: Remind yourself that every hardship is a stepping stone to something better.
A Final Thought
The next time life feels overwhelming, take a moment to say Alhamdulillah. Thank Allah for the challenges you face today—they are shaping you for something greater. Remember, a problem in this world is far better than facing difficulty in the akhirah. So, if you’re having problems in life, know this: your struggles are not the end of your story. They are the beginning of your transformation. Trust in Allah, embrace the journey and discover the hidden gems waiting for you.